This election - and this website - is not about you

Last week we had a series of diaries about what people thought of this web site.

This week we have a series of diaries decrying or defending individuals who diary and post here.

Here's my two cents -- this election is not about you.  And it sure isn't about this website and what you or anyone else have said.

If you thought that politics is about your feelings with respect to what's been said about the primary or your diary or posting, well, think about the feelings of:

- The parents who were up all night with their young child who may have an ear infection.  The child has been crying and pulling at her ear and has been difficult to comfort. A fever has been creeping up. But the family doesn't have health insurance and doesn't want to take the child to an emergency room, wait for hours, and then have a huge bill to pay.

- The spouse of a soldier who is on her or his third tour in Iraq. You thought this would be over years ago and maybe you really supported the war at the start. But once you realized that the American people had been lied into the war, you knew you wanted your love home. It's tearing you apart and you've long been scared that she will come home deeply injured or killed.

- The woman who found out she is pregnant and it is a pregnancy that was not planned nor wanted. Perhaps the woman is more a girl than a woman and didn't use birth control effectively because the sex education she got only talked about abstinence or she was just a typical teenager who thought it would never happen to her. Or maybe she's a woman whose family has huge economic challenges and another mouth to feed just won't help them deal with them. Or maybe the woman has a medical condition that makes the pregnancy especially dangerous.

- The parents of a child who just graduated from high school and plans on going to college, but the money looks really impossible right now.  They saved some money but the stock market has plunged. And in any case, the loan market has become more difficult. They remembered the very low interest loans they had available, but these are just not there for middle-class people anymore.

I could go on and on, but keep this in mind - this election is not about who said what to whom on this little website.

Politics is about making choices about things that matter. One of two people will be our next president. We know that these two people have very different views about what to say to those people who are worried. One thinks they are whiners, wants to keep the war going, cares nothing about access to higher education, and would like to restrict choice.  The other wants to promote national security by caring about economic security and by changing our foreign policy.

If you want to do something that matters, then get off line sometime. Go and volunteer. And if writing truly is your thing, put your smarts to work by writing letters to your local paper that are aimed at helping elect someone who will change the course of this country -- unless you think things are really going well under Republican rule and that the sorts of folks I've written about don't deserve a change.



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Thanks for reestablishing perspective! eom (2.00 / 2)


by Liberal Monk on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 09:39:28 AM EST

This diary -- and your lecture -- is about you (2.00 / 2)

on what your opinion is on how others should be conducting themselves and what others should be thinking...you behave just like those you criticize.

Tsk-tsk.

Instead of lecturing us, why don't you go door-to-door in a red neighborhood and lecture them?

I believe we all have a pretty solid idea about this election.  And the last time we checked, the position of "parent" has already be filled, so the audition is over.


by dcrolg on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:05:33 AM EST

Re: This diary -- and your lecture -- is about you (2.00 / 7)

I for one appreciate somebody taking the time to remind us that we have gotten seriously off track in the last couple of weeks. Criticizing the OP for trying to inject some rationality and civility into this site is stunningly off base.


by wasder on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:11:25 AM EST
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Political process has never been clean (2.00 / 1)

It was never intended to be -- "rationality and civility" reek of genteel aspirations and paternalism.

I believe the passion shown over the past period and multiple diaries is exactly on-base because it indicates the emotional involvement and depth of belief.  They care enough to participate; don't judge them on how they should participate, they're adults.

I find support of this diary stunningly condescending.


by dcrolg on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:24:46 AM EST
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Re: Political process has never been clean (2.00 / 3)

Dude or Dudette--you are mistaking smear-mongering, trollery and generalized mischief making by certain people hell bent on dividing us with passion. If people did argue and discuss like adults there wouldn't be the need to remind people of the bigger picture. But if you really want to wallow in the lowest common denominator zone as we have been in there is nothing to stop you or anyone else from doing so, as you well know.


by wasder on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:48:57 AM EST
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I might have misunderstood (2.00 / 2)

but I don't think the diarist was criticizing emotional involvement and depth of belief. I think s/he was saying that the level of discourse had deteriorated into personal spats, and all that wonderful energy and passion was being wasted.

It'll probably happen again, and there's nothing criminal about engaging in it, but there's nothing wrong with politicsmatters trying to nudge us back to constructive discussion either.


by Liberal Monk on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:51:49 AM EST
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Re: I might have misunderstood (2.00 / 1)

Haha, LM. We wrote the same thing at the same time.


by wasder on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:52:38 AM EST
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We be psychic twins! (eom) (none / 0)


by Liberal Monk on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 12:05:08 PM EST
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Re: I might have misunderstood (2.00 / 3)

As the diarist, I have to say -- Of course I'm not criticizing passion or excitement. That's fabulous!

And disagreements about policy and strategy should be aired. I also happen to think that the discussions can be civil and should show respect for being standards of logic and evidence.

What I'm criticizing is the internal focus of mydd sometimes. This election is not our feelings about other people at this site. It's about policy decisions.

And, I hear that some folks think that I'm being condescending. I certainly didn't want anyone to view my diary as such.  However, I am just not interested in diaries that rehash who said what to whom at this site.  And I guess my diary is meta as well - but only to try to prompt us awat from looking inward toward the real issues at stake for people's lives in this election.


We care about politics because we know politics matters for people's lives and opportunities.
by politicsmatters on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 11:44:51 AM EST
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Re: I might have misunderstood (1.85 / 7)

I want to thank you for writing this diary, Politicsmatters, and welcome it here.

I'll just add my observation that it seems some here take criticism of Obama way too personally, and it manifests itself in emotional outrage rather than rational discussion.


by cameoanne on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 04:08:00 PM EST
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Re: Political process has never been clean (2.00 / 3)

and sure politics is always a messing business but usually you are not fending off garbage from people who purport to be on the same side as you.


by wasder on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:51:58 AM EST
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Good points (2.00 / 3)

And a lot of us all lost perspective.

My fear though is: McCain is rising the polls thanks to a long planned strategy, hatched during the prolonged Democratic primary season, to sully Obama's reputation, and in a rovian sense turn all his positive qualities into negatives

There's a time for intense sometimes heated debates about a democratic candidate - but with the republican swiftboats now surging in the water, we all should do what we can to defeat their smears and lies, and make sure there's a democratic president, a democratic congress.

It's not about us as individuals, but MYDD is still a leading progressive blog. Those values are worth fighting for.


The Moose is Loose!
by duende on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:07:22 AM EST

Re: Good points (1.00 / 1)

"My fear though is: McCain is rising the polls thanks to a long planned strategy, hatched during the prolonged Democratic primary season, to sully Obama's reputation, and in a rovian sense turn all his positive qualities into negatives"

Wonder who he learnt that from in the Democratic party primary...


by dtaylor2 on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 04:31:27 PM EST
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You've just outed yourself (2.00 / 2)

OK. So a couple of days you were going on about how Gore lost in 2002

In a recent diary of mine, all you could do is write Jesse Jackson remarks.

Now you're trying to bait the Hillary supporters.

Undercover republicans should try to be at least, what, undercover.


The Moose is Loose!
by duende on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 05:21:29 PM EST
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Re: You've just outed yourself (2.00 / 2)

That was a quite obvious slip on dtaylor's part wasn't it.


"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good." Samuel Johnson
by MS01 Indie on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:09:56 PM EST
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Re: Good points (2.00 / 1)

I don't know if it was hatched during the primary.  It seems a lot older than that.

The problem, IMHO, is that for the last three weeks the election has been all about Obama.  McCain is talking about Obama.  The "news" media is engaged in a full frontal Obama orgy.  Obama is talking about himself and his campaign.

It's all coming off very cartoonish.  It just looks dumb.  Seriously, how many people like Obama all that much?  Probably a couple million more than like McCain that much.

What's really needed, again IMHO, is a genuine discussion of issues and trade-offs.  The biggest favor the Obama camp could do for their candidate is to start talking about real people and real issues.  But they are advertisers selling attempting to sell a packaged product, it'll be a good month or two before the plan changes.

This already long summer is going to get longer.

Cheers.


by SuperCameron on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 09:07:04 PM EST
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Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (2.00 / 9)

I read somewhere that the proportion of meta content on a blog is how you can tell when it's in decline. In other words, as the ship is sinking, more and more people post about the reasons why and how to save it, as opposed to discussing whatever its actual purpose was.

After a while, it's no longer fun, amusing or cute to play with the trolls or roll your eyes at the misguided, fake democrats. It's just boring.

So unfortunately, this site IS about the generic "you," because that's what gets on the wreck list, generates 100+ comments, and satisfies some people's ravenous need to argue. Meanwhile, the real political analysis, insight and news can be found at other blogs.


by Johnny Gentle Famous Crooner on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:16:33 AM EST

Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (2.00 / 3)

Yep, pretty much. Meta gets page refreshes though and lord knows administrators aren't immune to the siren call of talking about themselves (in the meta sense) constantly. Which is why they have little incentive to change things, or even enforce the rules.

MyDD was turning into a joke back in the primaries but I was hoping it would actually swing back around to having diaries of substance. Instead its all she said/he said, grudge matches, rehashing and troll central, mainly because the admins allow it and the general base eats it up. Which is fine, there needs to be an outlet for that as well, but as far as blogs holding forth some weighty political discussion, MyDD ain't it. This site is the soap opera version of Kos.


by upstate girl on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 02:03:37 PM EST
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The daytime soap opera, (2.00 / 2)

 not the nighttime.  Lower production values.


by ReillyDiefenbach on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 02:45:33 PM EST
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Re: This election - and this website (2.00 / 3)

Your point is well-stated, but also a bit obvious. Of course this election is about bigger issues that troll-rating wars between political nobodies or "girls versus boys" elementary school do-overs.

Your invitation to the squabblers, the McCain surrogates, and the primary-wounded to either take a hike or get behind the candidate is one of the best I've read.

But I'm not optimistic that you receive a positive response. I'm pretty sure that the people to whom you addressed the diary aren't really interested in politics and couldn't tell you the difference between the Democratic Party and the Republic Party.

But I wish you luck. MyDD would benefit greatly if these whiners and squabblers would give it a break.


by QTG on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 10:17:23 AM EST

Re: This election and this website not about you (2.00 / 5)

Thanks polticsmatters for the important reminder.

Politics matters. Policy matters.

One-upmanship, I-told-you-sos, and snarky comments don't matter.


by LakersFan on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 02:04:35 PM EST

Way to cut through the bullshit! (2.00 / 4)

Rec'd


Obama/Adam West or Bruce Campbell or Lucy Lawless '08
by Purple with Green Stipes and Pink Polka Dots Dem on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 02:26:46 PM EST

Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (2.00 / 3)

Exactly.  Well said!


by Renie on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 02:41:28 PM EST

Why are we assuming no one here is doing anything? (none / 0)

I find that a little presumptuous and insulting.

Not only am I an active volunteer, voter registrar AND election judge, I'm using a vacation day to work the GE this year.

Just because people blog, diary or comment frequently doesn't mean that's ALL they do. I might even go so far as to call that a stereotype.


McSame '08: Against All Hope - and Proud of It
by Its All So Goofy on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 06:17:04 PM EST

Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (2.00 / 1)

With respect, PM, every election is about every voter.  People vote their values and their interests, and often those interests conflict.  There is nothing wrong with voting those interests or discussing them.

Not to impugn your diary at all, but there are other sides to each of the situations you described.  The desires of the parents of the soldier in Iraq, in this case, are likely to be in direct conflict with the desires of the soldier himself or herself, and the spouse who may be glad to be able to pay a few more bills because of the deployment.

The desires of the poorer college student for federal assistance are in direct conflict with the desires of future taxpayers and private capital markets.

The healthcare issue is moot in this election.  Both Obama and McCain have plans and strategies that are directed primarily toward improving service to those who are already insured, well-off, and healthy.  As has been stated by the advisers of both candidates, the health care needs of the poor, unhealthy, or disabled are too expensive to deal with right now.  I think it's a bullshit situation, but here we are none the less.

People vote their interests, particularly their economic interests, and will continue to do so.  The voting patterns within the Democratic primary are a prime example of this.  Poorer voters tended to vote for the candidate who represented their interests, and the relatively well-off voted the candidate who promised a payout to them.  Caucuses favor the healthy and well-off and they voted their economic interests.  As a result, we have the candidate we have.

The real purpose of campaigns should not be to advance talking points or to paint caricatures.  Ideally, candidates should have to outline their plans, portray their vision, and make the expected trade-offs clear.  Unfortunately, neither Obama nor McCain are interested in that kind of election.  Most likely because neither believe they could win it.


by SuperCameron on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 08:54:59 PM EST

Re: This election (none / 0)

Believe it or not, I thought my vote was about my interests. Should I use my vote to do what's best for those that are worse off than me, even if its against my own self interests? I guess voting is sort of a selfish thing. I get to vote for who I think is best for me. Now "me" might be my family, my wife, my girl friend, my neighborhood, my coworkers, my church, etc. But ultimately its not about everyone else. They get their vote, I get mine.

As for your list, you forgot some people.

-The doctor who put himself through 15 years of advanced education to become successful and wealthy and doesn't like being taxed double, triple or more than what others who make less are taxed.

-The libertarian gun owner, hunting guide that doesn't like a bunch of suits in Washington telling him what guns he/she can buy or what animals he/she can shoot on her own land.

-The homeschooling Baptist husband and wife who are sick of the government telling them how to raise their children

-The self-made branch manager of a major bank that worries about the level of care her family will receive if universal health care is mandated.

Believe it or not, there are counter arguments to progressive positions that our many of our fellow Americans believe in. The cases you present in your OP lend themselves to supporting progressive positions (and Jeez that felt like a guilt trip). But there are others in this country that are in situations/positions/lifestyles, etc that-gasp-favor more conservative/libertarian positions on the issues. So should I concern myself with them when I'm in the voting booth or only the poor, disadvantaged and downtrodden?


by bigdaddy on Fri Aug 01, 2008 at 11:40:11 PM EST

Bring it on bigdaddy! (2.00 / 1)

First let me establish an agreed upon foundation for this debate. Didactic?

"The word is often used to refer to texts that are overburdened with instructive or factual matter to the exclusion of graceful and pleasing detail so that they are pompously dull and erudite."

Pretty sure that's what you meant by your "Jeez, that felt like a guilt trip comment."

Other than that, what's with the pretense that you even care about those other people? You care about you. I can't see any motivation other than guilt for feeling selfish that would compel you to cull some talking points on the cheap to complain that you don't have enough money because you think you have to care about everyone else. You don't bigdaddy. You favor more conservative/libertarian positions on the issues. Steel your spine and just state what you believe. You want more money and you want the power and influence that goes with deciding who you give it to. My impression is that a lot of the "me" you talk about, like your wife, girlfriend and church, for example,  require that you dole out some bucks when you're really not getting everything you think that money earns. You can talk about things like that here. Using a blog as a therapeutic outlet is obviously free. Sometimes people feel that not enough people are hearing what they have to say when they call into their favorite AM station. We do. Just be who you are and say what you feel. You're American, you vote, you pay taxes and of course your opinions matter. No one knows who you are. Let it rip!


John McCain is a liar. Erratic, poor judgment.
by Jeter on Sat Aug 02, 2008 at 03:38:53 AM EST
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Re: Bring it on bigdaddy! (none / 0)

Next caller?


John McCain is a liar. Erratic, poor judgment.
by Jeter on Sat Aug 02, 2008 at 03:41:12 AM EST
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I thought this weeks purpose of MyDD (2.00 / 1)

was to have some troll mislead as many people as possible regarding Obama's wailing wall prayer.


Ornithological Vaccinations and Aviary Heuristics
by OVAH on Sat Aug 02, 2008 at 12:51:44 AM EST

Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (1.66 / 3)

Not even a a great positive diary can be free of troll jacking and flame wars.

Lame.


Mooseburgers? Careful Sarah. Moose bite back!
by spacemanspiff on Sat Aug 02, 2008 at 01:44:59 AM EST

Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (none / 0)

...or a presumptuous, sanctimonious one either


by bigdaddy on Sat Aug 02, 2008 at 02:59:56 AM EST
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Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (none / 0)

Engels posted here today and no one even responded. Sad. Have we not learned the lesson of Satryicon? Attention is like water.


John McCain is a liar. Erratic, poor judgment.
by Jeter on Sat Aug 02, 2008 at 03:46:57 AM EST
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Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (1.00 / 1)

engels?!!?!?!

WHERE!?!?!?

I need to go and rec that up!


Mooseburgers? Careful Sarah. Moose bite back!
by spacemanspiff on Sat Aug 02, 2008 at 11:27:20 AM EST
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Re: This election - and this website - is not abou (1.00 / 1)

rankles posted too. It was in Jerome's FP article about Obama's statement on drilling.


"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good." Samuel Johnson
by MS01 Indie on Sat Aug 02, 2008 at 11:41:47 AM EST
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